Divorce is a very difficult ordeal for anyone which is why it is important to fix the possible issues or problems that will go along with it. Aside from the emotional impact that divorce can bring to a whole family, it can also affect the finances. Divorced fathers often find it hard to deal with their finances and to act as a father to their children. However, as a parent, it is your obligation to explain to them the situation.
Here are tips for parenting your child and dealing with your finances.
1. The key to keep everything in order is to balance everything. You have to balance being a mother, a father and everything else that surrounds your life. You have to understand that your child will act differently depending on their age. For example, teenagers want to enjoy their freedom and they want to go out all the time; but if you let your child do whatever they want, your duty as a father will be ineffective. Talk to your child and explain to them that you have responsibilities and duties as a daughter and a father. You have to control your spending when it comes to your children’s allowance.
2. You have to stay connected with your children all the time. But it doesn’t mean you have to call them every 30 minutes, you can simply ask them to text you where they are; so that you know they are doing okay. Try to talk to your children during dinner time and ask them how their day went. If your child is into shopping, you can accompany them and even buy them a few items. Make it clear with your rules; tell them that they have a budget or if they are only allowed to buy one etc.
3. Give them the freedom that they need. Children or teenagers need to experience a few things on their own and you will serve as a guide to them. For example, you can give your child an extension of your credit card but you have to explain to them how to use it, how to check credit score and how they’re going to pay for it. Let them experience the whole process so that they’ll know what…